UrbanDictionary.com is an irreverent online slang encyclopedia that crowdsources its definitions. The entry for “horse people” states: “Those that are in love with their horses and prefer interaction and intimacy with their horses to actual people. Also are snooty and inevitably annoy all those around them.” Ouch.
If you’re surprised at this perception of “horse people,” think about how many topics you can’t even bring up among your riding buddies without causing a nasty argument. Horse slaughter. What “ethical breeding” means. Wild mustangs. Barefoot versus shod. Even something as seemingly innocuous as whether to pull manes and clip whiskers. Most horse people have at least one thing they can and will rant about until they’re wild-eyed and frothing at the mouth.
Add to this the cliques: die-hard barrel racers, dressage divas, breed snobs. There are coat color cliques, organization cliques, and fans of insert-trainer-name-here cliques. Then there are the know-it-alls. Somewhere out there are thousands of self-proclaimed experts in all the minutiae of the horse world. And while most horse people are quick to acknowledge they’re not perfect, secretly we are all also pretty sure that others are more wrong than we are!
Into this steps the newbie, who’s just trying to learn about horses and riding. Confronted by cliques, barraged by opinions, bewildered at the socio-political subtext of every tiny choice, it’s no wonder she soon hightails it out of the horse world. And that’s awful.
It’s awful for her, and it’s awful for all equestrians, because we need newbies. We need new competitors, volunteers, clients, customers, and friends in order to keep our hobby, our passion, alive and growing. “Passion” is a key word here. Horse people are opinionated because we are passionate about doing our best for our horses and in our chosen disciplines. That’s not a bad thing, but we do need to refocus that passion a little more positively.
Here are seven things we can do to get more people involved in the horse world.
If we all become open and friendly ambassadors of all things equine, just imagine how many new people will want to get involved in the horse world. It’ s good for horse-related businesses, and it’s good for making new friendships. There’s strength in numbers, and we need to bring in new riders and equestrians to keep the horse community going strong.
LAURA ROSE lives on a farm in Wisconsin where she blogs, paints and sometimes rescues horses.
This article originally appeared in the November 2015 issue of Horse Illustrated. Click here to subscribe!
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Good article, and being a horse owner/lover, most of us want to show off our horses to new comers, because it is our pride and joy.