The horse world can be very harsh and those breeches and tight jeans leave nowhere to hide. I am tall and slender BUT I am also over 60! Being called a fossil is no fun either. I try to consider the south and remember that cruel remarks say more about the speaker than about you.
Amen!! I am a wider hipped rider. I go for black breeches mostly to hide my imperfections but who doesn't have some of those pesky things lying around!! Ride on pal!