Thanks so much for the reinforcement that I am doing okay with my mare who had been abused and very head shy. Now after a year of gentle love and care she will walk over and right into her halter. She loves the attention and nuzzles for more. Very good article.
Thanks so much for this article, I will do my best to help the abused horses and ponies in my area when possible. Thanks again.
I know this article is from some years ago, but it has helped me today. I rescued a young pony with an unknown background (3 years old). I have had her for over a year and a half and have made little progress with her trust, despite having endless patience with her. I have sat in her paddock for hours. I have hung with her and worked with her gently for months on end. There has not been a day in a year and a half that I have not spent time with this pony. We have had some setbacks (she got loose and eventually had to be lassoed to be caught for her own safety after running around the neighborhood for 2 days - and of course this set her back to square one). A wonderful friend was helping me work on her trust recently, and we were making good progress when she thought it was "time" and ok to clip the shank on her. The pony freaked and bolted, and as of now (2 weeks later) I still can't get near her to get the shank off so we are starting over on trust again. But my point is that this article is so sensibly written, and it enabled me to confirm my belief that while this pony may never be "trainable" (she is scared of EVERYTHING)she does not have a mean bone in her entire body. She has never kicked, bitten, struck, or displayed any behavior other than sheer terror and trying to run away. Therefore, while others have hinted that maybe she should be euthanized, this article confirms my opinion that at the very least we can hopefully find her a home as a pasture companion. She gets along really well with other horses, not dominant at all. She would make a great companion and I think she would be happy. So.... thanks for a great article and for giving me hope that this pony will have a future, whatever that turns out to be.