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HI Spy: Who???s Your Most Memorable Barn Buddy?

We have a special place in our hearts for every horse that’s trotted in and out of our lives. But what about the people who have peppered the breezeways and barn aisles of our stables? Lots of them have been great friends and acquaintances. But which one has earned the title of BBBF: Best Barn Buddy Forever?



“I’ve been lucky to have had a lot of horse pals over the years,” says Doreen Hagar. “But if I had to single out my most memorable barn buddy, it’d have to be Mindy. She and I rode at the same barn, with the same trainer, and we showed in the same divisions. Whether I was taking a lesson or competing, Mindy was always around. She was a very good rider with an awesome mare. That could’ve been kind of ugly if you think about it,” Doreen explains with a laugh. But she reflects for a moment and adds, “Fortunately, Mindy was driven to win, just like me, but she wasn’t ruthless or cutthroat. In fact, she was a lot of fun. It seems like we were always cracking each other up. That camaraderie carried over to the show ring. We’d root for each other and most of the time we’d place right next to each other. Like if Mindy won, I’d be second, or vice versa. At one big show, when I suddenly got very ill and was in the hospital, Mindy showed my horse for me, and won a couple of championships on him. She was genuinely sorry, almost apologetic, that I wasn’t able to be the one collecting the prizes. I’ll never forget that. Even though Mindy has moved hundreds of miles away, I’ll always think of her fondly. She was a good rider, a good horsewoman and a good friend.”



Which one of your horse pals would you name Most Memorable Barn Buddy? We’d like to know whose company you enjoy on trail rides. We want to hear who it is that you chat with for hours about horses. When there’s a sale at the local tack store, a Must See clinic or a Can’t Miss horse expo, who do you call for companionship? Simply click on Submit a Comment below and immortalize them. Some of your comments may appear in Horse Illustrated.

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Cindy Hale

Cindy Hale’s life with horses has been filled with variety. As a child she rode western and learned to barrel race. Then she worked as a groom for a show barn, and was taught to harness and drive Welsh ponies. But once she’d taken her first lessons aboard American Saddlebreds she was hooked on English riding. Hunters and hunt seat equitation came next, and she spent decades competing in those divisions on the West Coast. Always seeking to improve her horsemanship, she rode in clinics conducted by world-class riders like George Morris, Kathy Kusner and Anne Kursinski. During that time, her family began raising Thoroughbred and warmblood sport horses, and Cindy experienced the thrills and challenges of training and showing the homebred greenies. Now retired from active competition, she’s a popular judge at local and county-rated open and hunter/jumper shows. She rides recreationally both English and western. Her Paint gelding, Wally, lives at home with her and her non-horsey husband, Ron.

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  • My BBBF is Angela. She rides barrels just like me! We both go to the same school, and have been buds for, like ever!
    We have learn togehter and supported eachother along the way! I love Angela like a sister!

  • My best barn friend is definitely Maggie. Although she is a couple years younger than me, her and I share so many of the same beliefs when it comes to horses, be it training, health, feed, etc. Her and I have done horse costume classes together, go to shows together, and we used to do barn sleepovers together when we were young! Her and I have been friends now for probably close to ten years!

  • My best barn buddy was a horse. I was a lone 12 year old girl with a yearning for horses and I didn't know any horse people. My family was given an 18 year old mare and she taught me everything I needed to know about riding and more. I couldn't afford a saddle so I learnt to ride bareback. Cindy was the best thing that ever happened to me.

  • My BBBF is definitely Cori hands down. SHe is my Trainers daughter. I have only known her for a about three months. She is about eight years older than me but she is my closest friend. She teaches me a lot. It is amazing how much I have learned from her in just three months. She teaches me about riding and everything else. I have learned so much just by observing her. She corrects me when she sees I am doing something wrong and shows me how to do it right. We show together. She gives me lessons and we just ride together. Sometimes it is hard just lasting from week to week when I see her at my lessons. She is my role model and not just in horses.

  • thats a cute artical. my bbbf has to be my cow spot. i know he was no horse but he did let me ride him when i was very little.

  • My Pappaw is barn buddy he is very good with horses.And He is a true cowboy he goes trail riding with me.And he has been in some rodeos.Even though he is 66 he is still a great horseman and my favorite barn buddy!!

  • I have so many friends but if I had to pick one I would pick my trainor Val she is the greatest on and off she's always helping me and all of my friends I9 think she deservs to get the tital Best Barn Buddy!

  • My barn buddy is definately Dorothy, my trainer, or Zoe and Grace, my BFFs. They are just so great and knowledgeable about horses and we love taking our boys out together All three of our geldings are the best of friends.

  • My barn buddy Carly, owns two horses, Showdown, and Oboy. We are best friends out of the barn also.

  • My sister. She always is a big help at shows, and she does everything she can to help out Fudge and me! She always takes the best care of her horse, too. She's the kind of person you can learn from and who is always ready to help in a horsey situation. I don't know what I would do without my sister for a super awesome barn buddy!

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